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What it says on the tin.

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  • #81204

    John Cleese is also in this and I genuinely don’t know if he’s meant to be Grammer’s brother or father.

    Remember….it can be two things!!

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  • #81261

    Interesting

    There is a picture of Chris Hemsworth working out with his muscles and veins bulging, abs, etc. It turns out that, while that look is nice, it is not universally attractive to everyone. It’s been said it is more of a male power fantasy (what men think women want) than what women actually want.

    It is just the look in the movies and tv what the usually male showrunners present. Chris Hemsworth, Hugh Jackman, a young Brad Pitt, and so on.

    News to me and my old “dating shape” bovine excrement…

  • #81296

    what women actually want.

    What do women want? Please tell us Al. We must know.

  • #81297

    There are plenty of romance novels written by women which tell us what women actually want. (It’s usually money.)

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  • #81298

    There are plenty of romance novels written by women which tell us what women actually want. (It’s usually money.)

    Well everybody wants money that’s nothing special.

     

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  • #81303

    There are plenty of romance novels written by women which tell us what women actually want. (It’s usually money.)

    And if the covers are any indication, they also want to have sex with long-haired, muscular men who ride horses.

  • #81304

    long-haired, muscular men who ride horses

    Who are rich.

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  • #81305

    long-haired, muscular men who ride horses

    Who are rich.

    Clarification: the men are rich, not the horses.

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  • #81306

    Sometimes the woman falls in love with a man she thinks is poor, because that shows she has integrity and doesn’t only care about money.

    Usually, he turns out to be secretly rich and only pretending to be poor so he can find a woman with integrity who doesn’t only care about money.

    Surprisingly, after finding out he has been lying to her for the entire novel, she still forgives him. Or perhaps not so surprisingly, now she knows he’s rich. I want to see a novel where the man pretends to be rich and she still loves him when she finds he’s poor. That would be integrity.

  • #81307

    Fabio

    In all fairness, the dating shape stuff was about stepping up your appearance if the general consensus is you would look better, not about getting so ripped and chiseled.

    Then again it is part of a much larger issue of the media (movies, tv, fashion magazines, Kardashians, Victoria Secret, Instagram) setting unrealistic beauty standards especially for impressionable teens.

    We already got into Hugh Jackman’s routine was only for the movie and can’t be sustained indefinitely…

    I mean women must be a size zero or else, men must have less than 5% body fat…

    Some of all that is eating disorders, Photoshopped pictures, lens filters giving you flawless skin on camera and so on.

    It goes on and on…

  • #81310

    Sometimes the woman falls in love with a man she thinks is poor, because that shows she has integrity and doesn’t only care about money. Usually, he turns out to be secretly rich and only pretending to be poor so he can find a woman with integrity who doesn’t only care about money. Surprisingly, after finding out he has been lying to her for the entire novel, she still forgives him. Or perhaps not so surprisingly, now she knows he’s rich. I want to see a novel where the man pretends to be rich and she still loves him when she finds he’s poor. That would be integrity.

    Might I suggest the following:

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  • #81311

    I’ve never seen the Disney version, but in the original story Aladdin is not pretending to be rich, the genie has made him literally the richest person in the kingdom when the Princess marries him. It’s the “woman wants rich man” story again.

  • #81312

    long-haired, muscular men who ride horses

    Who are rich.

    Clarification: the men are rich, not the horses.

    Don’t diminish the horse’s personal wealth, David. He may not be long-haired, muscular man rich, but he is living comfortably.

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  • #81314

    I’ve never seen the Disney version, but in the original story Aladdin is not pretending to be rich, the genie has made him literally the richest person in the kingdom when the Princess marries him. It’s the “woman wants rich man” story again.

    In the Disney version Aladdin first meets princess Jasmine when he is a poor “street rat” and their romance begins; then with the help of the genie he disguises himself as a wealthy royal called Prince Ali to woo her, because the law says the princess must be married to a prince; Jasmine likes ‘Ali’ but finds him a bit stuck up (and starts to see through the ruse); and by the end of the movie Aladdin has had his princely status taken away by the villain, and has to choose to use his last wish either to become a prince again or free the genie. He frees the genie and Jasmine convinces her father the Sultan to change the law so she can marry Aladdin because she loves him as he is.

    You’d like it.

  • #81315

    Now that kind of woke rewriting of classics is exactly why I don’t like Disney movies :-)

     

  • #81320

    Then it’s true what they say, never give the audience what they think they want. :rose:

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  • #81334

    what women actually want.

    What do women want? Please tell us Al. We must know.

    Tbh, I thought I did, but now…

    It is all relative, depending on the woman’s type. I thought that what was conventionally appealing was this young chiseled boy toy type with washboard abs, but…

    It all depends.

  • #81337

    We spoke about binge watching and all these streaming services before:

    Maybe a bit too many to get everything legally but I digress…

    Streaming on the PC is good if you want to give the main TV to other household members while you watch this on the PC…

    Disney+ is good for the Marvel content and the Star Wars universe. The cartoons are really if you have kids.
    HBO Max is good for a lot of movies and content from HBO and Cinemax as well as DC material
    Netflix is you know…
    Paramount+ for Star Trek stuff, old MTV shows and CBS stuff
    Amazon Prime for The Boys primarily and now MGM (James Bond)

    As for AppleTV, HUlu, and so on…

    More comments? Opinions?

    Some of these services come with membership like Amazon membership and if you buy something big. At Apple you get 1 free year. Diney+, Hulu, and something else comes in a triple play package.

    Anyway… it is more reason to be a couch potato to be honest 😂😂😂

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  • #81356

    Tbh, I thought I did, but now…

    I think it is a bit presumptuous to assume to know “what women want”. Like you said, it depends on the person. You’re not really supposed to know, until they tell you.

     

     

  • #81357

    I think it is a bit presumptuous to assume to know “what women want”. Like you said, it depends on the person. You’re not really supposed to know, until they tell you.

    Words of truth Arjan. I just went for what I felt was for the most part what they wanted, but even the chiseled physique doesn’t do it all the time.

  • #81360

    Is there anyone on this site who has gotten covid by the way? Lots of people have had it by now, but I don’t recall hearing anyone over here saying they had it. It is remarkable if none of us have.

     

    (Not to be a conspiracy theorist, I know people in real life who have had it. My sister and her husband and my cousin and her family have had it.)

  • #81361

    I think it’s testimony to that we’re either cyberhermits or being very, very careful.

    It can be two things.

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  • #81364

    I’ve not got it at all though I am resigned to the fact I will eventually given the nature of my work. In terms of who has had it… My father in law has it currently (he is 9 days into his 10 day isolation period and has finally got a negative lateral flow test). Worst he has felt is really flu-y. My pal at work got it in October and was knocked for six by it. He took a couple months to get shot of the bad cough it came with. My granny got it in the care home the day after she got her second jab. Thankfully she had no symptoms and just had to isolate in her room (my mum made the decision to not tell her she was positive as she has power of attorney and thought the news would just upset her).

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  • #81365

    I think it’s testimony to that we’re either cyberhermits or being very, very careful.

    It can be two things.

    Being careful has definitly helped. I have, in the past, been super stressed by how others conduct themselves out and about but have tried to let that go and live by the mantra of “I’m doing the best I can for me and mine”. That said its been pretty stressful recently as getting a positive result would have royally fucked xmas for me, the wife, the kids, and both sides of our family.

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  • #81367

    I think it is likely I will get it at some point, but by the time I do, I want my immune system to be a bunch of machine gun toting, sharp suited gangsters that saunter up to this new invader neighbourhood going “Say hello to our little fucking friends!”….. Cue a Covid massacre, after which my immune system deploys Terminator hunter-killers to take out the dregs.

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  • #81432

    Ok I’m getting the weirdest recommendations on youtube…recently I got a pro- CCP Chinese propaganda channel, and today I get a mormon religious vlogger and a live streamed church service…what did I watch to deserve this from the algorithm.

  • #81448

    Now my sister’s fiance has covid. Pretty much fucks our plans for Xmas. Ho ho bloody ho.

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  • #81481

    Sorry to hear that, Bruce. Hope you can salvage a happy weekend in spite of this setback.

    In other news, my son just announced that he and his partner are officially engaged; they are currently down in Florida to celebrate the holidays with her mother.

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  • #81489

    Thanks Jerry and congratulations on your news. I may have been over dramatic saying Xmas was ruined. My father in law is testing negative for covid after his 10 days in isolation so we’ll be able to have him and my mother in law around on Xmas day as planned. We’ll still spend a few days with my folks too and maybe do a socially distanced doorstep swap of gifts with my sister.

  • #81491

    Now my sister’s fiance has covid. Pretty much fucks our plans for Xmas. Ho ho bloody ho.

    Bad luck, Bruce. I was faced with the same prospect, but thankfully my sister’s boyfriend just has a bad cold, not covid  (per a PCR).

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  • #81503

    So my booster shot fucked me up for a day, got sod all sleep that night, and was achey and tired for much of the day. I was planning to dart around to our local Tesco and get most of the shopping, and then into the city centre to pick up Laura’s dinner for Christmas day and random vegan bits we can’t get locally. But instead I napped on the couch with Mythbusters on instead, we went to a bigger Tesco that’s near our GP after Laura got her booster. And now I need to go into town on Christmas Eve.

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  • #81505

    And now I need to go into town on Christmas Eve.

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  • #81509

    I might be hiding out in a screening of Matrix Resurrections right now

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  • #81511

    I might be hiding out in a screening of Matrix Resurrections right now

    I’m interested to hear your thoughts on that one.

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  • #81583

    You know…

    If I bought my 12 year old cousin to my house to visit and he saw my comics, my cable channels, the PC setup of Steam games and Internet etc. He’d probably wonder how do I ever get bored and not feel like doing anything some days?

    He wouldn’t understand…

  • #81593

    You know when you give a rather pricey gift and they just give you a cheap one?

    Or they demand gifts even though they are atheists?

    Anyone regifting this year?

  • #81632

    Christmas day: went without a hitch.

    Boxing day: wife tests positive for covid.

    Ah well, could have been worse. We got one day of family celebrations out of xmas this year which is a whole day more than we got last year.

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  • #81694

    Mixed feelings

    I used to work near a center and so many older ones brought in their teen children to interpret for them.

    On one hand, they have been in the country for some twenty years with English all around them and they still speak a very rudimentary or broken form of English.

    This has been a major argument by some right wingers.

    On the other hand, after all this time, shouldn’t they have progressed more?

    Then again, it’s been said about some American tourists coming to another country being so demanding as if they were in charge, and they make no effort to adapt and even try to speak the native language.
    That is wrong too.

  • #81739

    So`. What’d I miss?

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  • #81743

    So`. What’d I miss?

    COVID has been completely eradicated, China had its first democratic elections, and Donald Trump has apologized. For everything.

    Welcome home, Christian!

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  • #81745

    So`. What’d I miss?

    Cat pictures!

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  • #81748

    So`. What’d I miss?

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  • #81773

    So`. What’d I miss?

    Nice having you back Christian…

  • #81819

    We were talking about Adele and the mixed reactions she got from her weight loss…

    Now the actress Rebel Wilson has lost 70 pounds

    81720-rebel-wilson

    And reports say that some on her management team didn’t want her to lose all that because her roles in rom com movies were as the fat friend providing some comic relief to the main actress/love interest:

    https://pagesix.com/2021/12/07/rebel-wilsons-team-didnt-want-her-to-lose-weight/

    Now apparently all that has to change… Maybe she will be the main love interest now!

  • #81871

    She will definitely be the love interest now since those are the only roles available to women, the fat friend and the love interest.

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  • #81945

    @LORCAN_NAGLE, have you seen this?

    Lindsay Ellis Announces She’s Quitting Content Creation, Cites Exhaustion From Cancelation

  • #81947

    @LORCAN_NAGLE, have you seen this?

    Lindsay Ellis Announces She’s Quitting Content Creation, Cites Exhaustion From Cancelation

    Reading that made me feel about a million years old.

  • #81953

    In March of 2021, Ellis found herself in the middle of a controversy for comparing Raya and the Last Dragon to Avatar: The Last Airbender

    How dare she!!!!

  • #81955

    @LORCAN_NAGLE, have you seen this?

    Lindsay Ellis Announces She’s Quitting Content Creation, Cites Exhaustion From Cancelation

    Reading that made me feel about a million years old.

    So you’re feeling younger than you actually are?

  • #81957

    @LORCAN_NAGLE, have you seen this?

    Lindsay Ellis Announces She’s Quitting Content Creation, Cites Exhaustion From Cancelation

    I did, yeah. It’s a shame but it seems to be best for her health, and she seems to be pivoting to writing novels anyway.

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  • #81958

    With all the smart phones out there, video recording all the violent outbursts on planes, public transportation, stores, etc.

    Are there really more crazies there (not just the Karens), or is it really more or less the same number but they are being recorded more?

    I understand that the population is more stressed out over the pandemic, the economy, jobs, social issues, politics, but we always had most of this already. Are people all in all getting nastier?

    Even on social media…

  • #81959

    On women roles…

    It is true about the limited roles they get casted in.

    Then there is the age-ism issue. On the whole, only Meryl Streep has been getting steady work as she got older.

    Carrie Ann Moss took a break mainly to raise her family, but she said she was being casted once for a grandmother role when she was 41! Ridiculous. Then there is this pressure to be thin for the Male Gaze… Already underweight and being told by a male to lose 5 more pounds!

    Never mind the pay discrepancy.

    What can you say?

  • #81973

    Nothing Goes Over my Head My reflexes are too fast I would catch it - Drax  destroyer | Meme Generator

  • #81982

    I understand that the population is more stressed out over the pandemic, the economy, jobs, social issues, politics, but we always had most of this already. Are people all in all getting nastier?

    Most people are selfish assholes; it’s as simple as that. But it used to be that people would do the right thing, either because of proper social behavior or because they didn’t want to be perceived as assholes. Here in the USA, our natural selfishness was exacerbated by the former White House administrations words and deeds that indicated to people that it’s okay, even encouraged, to be self-centered racist/sexist/intolerant assholes, almost to the point of being proud of our assholery (and if that’s not a word, it should be).

    In the immediate aftermath of the 9/11 attacks 20 years ago, Americans actually were behaving like decent people, caring about others and doing random acts of kindness. And this altruistic behavior lasted for a year or more. When COVID became a national crisis, we banged on pots and pans and cheered front-line workers for a while, but in a short while most Americans thought only of themselves rather than being concerned for the most vulnerable members of society. Wearing a mask became a political hot-potato; not being able to go to the gym became a reason for rioting; and getting a vaccine was somehow a violation of people’s Constitutional rights.

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  • #81984

    Most people are selfish assholes; it’s as simple as that.

    I really don’t think so. I think in general people are willing to help others, etc. if they can anyway.

     

    I notice a bit more chaos and unpleasantness on the streets here, mostly from kids bored because of the pandemic restrictions I think. But I understand their frustration.

  • #81987

    New Years resolutions?

    No peas
    No grapefruit
    Better etiquette
    Patience
    Pick battles better. More the walking away option
    Less click bait and those “thirst traps”
    Ignoring more

    etc…

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  • #81988

    Most people are selfish assholes; it’s as simple as that. But it used to be that people would do the right thing, either because of proper social behavior or because they didn’t want to be perceived as assholes. Here in the USA, our natural selfishness was exacerbated by the former White House administrations words and deeds that indicated to people that it’s okay, even encouraged, to be self-centered racist/sexist/intolerant assholes, almost to the point of being proud of our assholery (and if that’s not a word, it should be).

    In the immediate aftermath of the 9/11 attacks 20 years ago, Americans actually were behaving like decent people, caring about others and doing random acts of kindness. And this altruistic behavior lasted for a year or more. When COVID became a national crisis, we banged on pots and pans and cheered front-line workers for a while, but in a short while most Americans thought only of themselves rather than being concerned for the most vulnerable members of society. Wearing a mask became a political hot-potato; not being able to go to the gym became a reason for rioting; and getting a vaccine was somehow a violation of people’s Constitutional rights.

    Wait until the midterm elections.

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    I believe you turned your next age recently. Must have been nice. Presents too…

  • #81991

    New Years resolutions?

    No peas
    No grapefruit
    Better etiquette
    Patience
    Pick battles better. More the walking away option
    Less click bait and those “thirst traps”
    Ignoring more

    etc…

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    What’s the problem with peas and grapefruit.

     

    My New Years resolution is to become ungovernable

  • #81992

    My New Years resolution is to become ungovernable

    😂

    Ajan fellow… I haven’t forgotten about you.

    How are you doing these days?

    Please continue to fight the good fight, stay strong, and hang in there.

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  • #82009

    Happy new year all, whats the worst 2022 can bring…

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  • #82075

    After Planet of the Apes, Charleton Heston had a kind of all new career in those “apocalyptic” thought piece action movies. Still, movies like Omega Man, Logan’s Run, Rollerball, The Andromeda Strain, etc. have that kind of “Twilight Zone/ Outer Limits” wild imagination that you only see rarely in low budget movies or occasionally in something like BLACK MIRROR.

    Randomly, how many people actually use the amount of toothpaste every time you brush your teeth that they do in ads and commercials? Like…

    Dentists will tell you that you only need a “pea-sized amount for adults and rice grain sized amount for kids.”

    If we actually use the amount shown in the ads, certainly the toothpaste companies benefit as you need to buy more often, but you could also be doing harm to your teeth – not serious harm, but ironically, the resulting fluorosis will make your teeth rougher and harder to clean.

     

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  • #82079

    I don’t think they expect you to use that much, it’s just to show off the stripes or whatever that’s in them.

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  • #82082

    After Planet of the Apes, Charleton Heston had a kind of all new career in those “apocalyptic” thought piece action movies. Still, movies like Omega Man, Logan’s Run, Rollerball, The Andromeda Strain, etc. have that kind of “Twilight Zone/ Outer Limits” wild imagination that you only see rarely in low budget movies or occasionally in something like BLACK MIRROR.

    Rollerball with James Caan is one of my alltime favorite movies.

    It’s always interesting to look at sci-fi movies as a reflection on the times in which they were made. It seems like a lot of sci-fi of the 1970s was about the individual trying to survive and overcome a societal “system”. Considering that Watergate was showing that the US Government was corrupt and broken, it makes sense.

    This is still one of the best parodies of 1970s sci-fi:

    Nowadays, a lot of sci-fi has a “science/technology bad” vibe to it. It makes sense considering how rapidly techonology and science has accelerated and incorporated into everyday life. I do wonder, though, if the portrayalof science and technology in entertainment has caused some of the anti-science mentality that is purvading the world to today.

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  • #82094

    I do wonder, though, if the portrayalof science and technology in entertainment has caused some of the anti-science mentality that is purvading the world to today.

    You mean like people believing that a “life-saving vaccine” is actually full of nanotech and tracking technology that will turn us into zombies? That will never happen; we’re just too smart for that kind of mass phobia.

    Wait…what?

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  • #82097

    There are good reasons to be suspicious of medical science though. Just look at unethical treatment throughout the history of psychiatry, things like unethical medical testing, iatrogenic disease etc.

     

     

  • #82103

    There are good reasons to be suspicious of medical science though. Just look at unethical treatment throughout the history of psychiatry, things like unethical medical testing, iatrogenic disease etc.

    I don’t think those are “good reasons to be suspicious of medical science”; the relatively rare examples of a Josef Mengele performing obscene experiments on living subjects should not justify an overall suspicion of ALL medical science, any more than the actions of a Gary Glitter should justify a presumption that all pop singers are child molesters.

    By all means, do your own research from legitimate sources of information, and ask for a second (or third) opinion, especially when you’re unsure about a prognosis and/or treatment being recommended by a professional medical practitioner. That’s just good common sense; but being suspicious of medical science as a rule is not common sense. And being suspicious of a vaccine long after it has been proven successful, because of the lies and mistruths you read on Facebook, is not common sense.

    Unless, of course, you are a character in a cheesy 1970s science-fiction thriller.

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  • #82119

    Josef Mengele performing obscene experiments

    Mengele is an extreme example of course but Pfizer got caught in the 90s illegally testing drugs on kids in Nigeria. These companies have a long list of crimes for which they were charged billions in lawsuits. And you have an opioid epidemic in the US which is to a large extent caused by medical intervention. Many of the people who became addicted to opioids were prescribed these medications initially, and Purdue actively campaigned to prescribe them as often as possible while understating the risk of addiction. This caused about a million deaths in the US alone.

     

    Iatrogenic disease (caused by medical intervention) according to some estimates kills about 200,000 people in the US every year.

     

    Iatrogenesis – Wikipedia

     

    And there is the shameful history of psychiatry. But admittedly that is a lot better today.

     

    edit: My point is not that doctors are bad people or something, I think almost all are wonderful people who try their best. But there are huge problems with the medical sector and people can understandably be distrustful. Also I agree that on the whole, medical science has made our lives better.

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  • #82126

    Lindsay Ellis Announces She’s Quitting Content Creation, Cites Exhaustion From Cancelation

    I thought cancel culture didn’t exist… =P

    Then there is this pressure to be thin for the Male Gaze… Already underweight and being told by a male to lose 5 more pounds!

    I say thank god men aren’t asked to lose weight, get super buff, and inject themselves full of steroids, etc… oh wait…

    Dentists will tell you that you only need a “pea-sized amount for adults and rice grain sized amount for kids.” If we actually use the amount shown in the ads, certainly the toothpaste companies benefit as you need to buy more often, but you could also be doing harm to your teeth – not serious harm, but ironically, the resulting fluorosis will make your teeth rougher and harder to clean.

    I use that amount shown in the pictures, but I only brush once a day… that should offset it, no? xD

  • #82129

    My social media advertising for the last 2 weeks is solely a variety of ‘plus size’ clothing retailers. As anyone who has met me here will attest, I am a pretty small guy, I’ve never worn any item of clothing larger than a medium so they aren’t much use to me unless maybe I want a tent to go camping. Usually you can trail back to some search or other as to why ads get targeted at you but this one is rather a mystery.

    All I can guess is I follow a lot of rugby stuff online, maybe that’s the key they are latching on to as a lot of rugby players are of the very large variety. I’m just a fan though.

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  • #82130

    Is it tracking your eating habits? Like, do you order a lot of food from apps and stuff? Im guessing you’d order for the whole family in such a case and an app won’t be able to figure that out so maybe it just thinks you’re some insane glutton?

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  • #82138

    All I can guess is I follow a lot of rugby stuff online, maybe that’s the key they are latching on to as a lot of rugby players are of the very large variety. I’m just a fan though.

    It’s crazy how these tracking algorithms work out what you “need”. I deliberately keep my work and social media lives separate, but just recently youtube has been feeding me a ads for SQL training, data warehouse products, etc., all of which make sense for my job but they shouldn’t know what my job is!

    Then I remembered I had been watching some videos made by my new company as prep for my interview last year. Apparently that’s all it takes, and now I am forever “big data products customer” :unsure:

    Mind you, they also think  I want to run a criminal empire in a major metropolis. Proving they can be 100% correct some of the time :yahoo:

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  • #82221

    20211228_121908

    Found this in a drug store the other day

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  • #82399

    Archeologists have uncovered the first primitive computer, believed to date back to the Garden of Eden. It was an Apple with very limited memory, you had one byte and then everything crashed.

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  • #82461

    Al-x wrote:

    Then there is this pressure to be thin for the Male Gaze… Already underweight and being told by a male to lose 5 more pounds!

    I say thank god men aren’t asked to lose weight, get super buff, and inject themselves full of steroids, etc… oh wait…

    Well @jacowboy … Since you quoted me…. I did say previously about the male body type that guys think women really want. That perception is also part of the whole Male Gaze thing.

  • #82465

    yeah yeah yeah, it’s all the “male”s fault…

  • #82483

    yeah yeah yeah, it’s all the “male”s fault…

    Where that pressure to be super buff, use steroids etc. is concerned, yeah, I’d say that it is. Much of the current culture of this is a result of this whole alpha-beta-sigma-male cult that females had very little input in.

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  • #82492

    I fully support the male gays.

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  • #82592

    Here is some nice links on the Male Gaze and the Female Gaze:

    https://aninjusticemag.com/the-male-gaze-vs-female-gaze-56ed585864ac

    https://www.filminquiry.com/film-theory-basics-laura-mulvey-male-gaze-theory/

    Regarding the Male Gaze, guys checking out and grading women’s appearance on a scale of 1-10. The American DJ Howard Stern had a segment on his show where he had men and mostly women in swimsuits and judges with these flash pointers would point at their figure flaws and grade them. The network ABC then stole the idea and named their short lived show “Are you Hot?” with their own panel of judges. This was at the time of those panel shows like American Idol etc.

    Seriously though, it is why actresses are pretty much done at the age of 40 or so. Only Meryl Streep and a few others are allowed to age gracefully. The rest are put out to pasture as it were. Same for women in music.

    With guys, it is the idea of being less than 5% body fat and well toned, like Hemsworth and Hugh Jackman in the movies. It can’t be sustained.

    There is backlash over it all as teen girls try to measure up to Instagram models with their Photoshop, and filters that they use… the Kardashians with their surgery etc…an impossible standard of beauty to attain. Guys trying to be so buff… you get the point.

  • #82600

    Seriously though, it is why actresses are pretty much done at the age of 40 or so. Only Meryl Streep and a few others are allowed to age gracefully. The rest are put out to pasture as it were. Same for women in music.

    This is a complete fabrication. 7 of the last 10 Best Actress Oscar winners were over the age of 40 (Meryl Streep, Cate Blanchett, Julianne Moore, Frances McDormand, Olivia Colman, Renee Zelweger, and Frances McDormand again). 7 of the last 10 Best Supporting Actress Oscars were also over the age of 40 (Octavia Spencer, Patricia Arquette, Viola Davis, Allison Janney, Regina King, Laura Dern, Youn Yuh-Jung). And that doesn’t include other well-respected and prolific actresses such as Judi Dench, Sandra Bullock, Jessica Chastain, Amy Adams, Nicole Kidman, Marion Cotillard, Reese Witherspoon, Charlize Theron and others who are all over 40 years of age and not “out to pasture”.

    And that doesn’t even take into account actresses who continue to be successful on television and theater, but no need to beat a dead horse.

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  • #82603

    Yes… we must agree to disagree. I could argue on that ad infinitum but…
    Well… you don’t argue with the other parts of my postings. Good enough.
    ——————-

    I was reading this psychology book about the fright/flight response. In Oakland of 1971, this woman who was a multi degreed black belt in karate was attacked and she just froze and couldn’t fight back. Ever since that incident, the program addressed reconditioning the “freeze response” in people learning self defense.

    Now, I found this Youtube channel (Wing Chun) on fight psychology where the host analyzes the bully/predator mentality, learning how to assess a threat, deescatlating an argument, etc.

  • #82607

    Ming-Na Wen is 58 and kicking ass on The Book of Boba Fett. She also did so for 7 seasons on Agents of SHIELD and she was 50 when she started.

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  • #82609

    Thanks

    And I have been drawing inspiration from Miller’s original Batman:TDKR.

    Then again, in that story, after the Joker killed the talk show audience, he went to the aging Selina Kyle and told her

    “The years have not been kind.”

  • #82610

    I dont know if Frank Miller is the best person to be drawing inspiration from…

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  • #82612

    True, but I focused on Bruce Wayne being in his 50s and going back at it…

    What is Frank Miller’s problem/issues anyway?

  • #82613

    True, but I focused on Bruce Wayne being in his 50s and going back at it…

    What is Frank Miller’s problem/issues anyway?

    Are you returning to your crimefighting ways?

  • #82619

    I dont know if Frank Miller is the best person to be drawing inspiration from…

    I get the gag but I always think it’s kind of a weird accusation to level at Miller, who created characters like Elektra and Martha Washington and Carrie Kelley over the course of his career.

    I guess it feels right if you only know Miller from Sin City, maybe.

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  • #82620

    Is Miller still working? He looked to be in terrible health some time ago. I hope he is OK

  • #82626

    I get the gag but I always think it’s kind of a weird accusation to level at Miller, who created characters like Elektra and Martha Washington and Carrie Kelley over the course of his career. I guess it feels right if you only know Miller from Sin City, maybe.

    He made Catwoman a prostitute.

    Twice.

  • #82629

    Two whales walk into a bar. This first whale says,

    “Eeeeeeeooooooyyyyyyyyyoooooooeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoooeeeoeeooooeeeeeeyyyyy”

    The second whale says, “Shut up Steve, you’re drunk.”

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  • #82630

    My workout is going great and I just got a new haircut. Life is good today.

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  • #82638

    Life is good today.

    I got my toes in the water, ass in the sand
    Not a worry in the world, a cold beer in my hand
    Life is good today, life is good today
    -Toes by Zac Brown

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  • #82660

    Which of these two would you choose to narrate your life: Morgan Freeman or Sir David Attenborough?

    I personally would pick Sir David, as his voice always seems to have a hint of fun, joy, and mischief in it.

  • #82662

    95 years ago today, Fritz Lang’s Metropolis debuted in German theaters.

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  • #82664

    You know…

    IIRC, It’s been said that the population of the Roman Empire was a good percentage of slaves and impoverished. So the Empire provided entertainment like the gladiator fights etc. to appease the agitated masses, IIRC. “Bread and Circuses” they called it.

    Now, I guess there are modern day “Bread and Circuses” all over to divert the masses and not raise their consciousness. Social media with its Only Fans section, Instagram, TikTok, reddit, TV, celeb gossip, you name it.

    I say it is good to every now and then, turn it all off, meditate, and think to yourself.

    What say you on all this?

  • #82666

    Which of these two would you choose to narrate your life: Morgan Freeman or Sir David Attenborough?

    Attenborough, easy.

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  • #82673

    Two whales walk into a bar. This first whale says, “Eeeeeeeooooooyyyyyyyyyoooooooeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoooeeeoeeooooeeeeeeyyyyy” The second whale says, “Shut up Steve, you’re drunk.”

    Jeeesus I just saw this on a show or a movie, and I can’t for the life of me remember what it was, I just remember it was an awkward girl with shitty jokes… u_u

    Oh wait, nevermind, I remember… lol my brain’s gone to shit…

  • #82674

    I say it is good to every now and then, turn it all off, meditate, and think to yourself.

    I do little 10 minute meditations throughout the day. Also I go on walks or bike rides to stop myself using the internet for too long. And read books. Physical paper books. ( I don’t have a tablet or smartphone)

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  • #82677

    I do little 10 minute meditations throughout the day. Also I go on walks or bike rides to stop myself using the internet for too long. And read books. Physical paper books. ( I don’t have a tablet or smartphone)

    Be like Arjan. 😊

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  • #82689

    I do little 10 minute meditations throughout the day. Also I go on walks or bike rides to stop myself using the internet for too long. And read books. Physical paper books. ( I don’t have a tablet or smartphone)

    Be like Arjan. 😊

    Nah I’m fucked up, don’t be like me.

  • #82712

    Now we are getting this for stalking:

    https://www.abcactionnews.com/news/national/watch-model-says-she-was-tracked-by-apple-airtag-device-in-nyc?_amp=true

    https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna9416

    I have heard of finding out someone’s name to look them up in social media, Uber drivers hitting on girls in their car coming home from a club, now Apple AirTag.

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